Thank you for your responses
The valve is a single spoon valve that operates a double action cylinder to raise and lower a dozer blade on front. I have left the blade and the box blade in back in the up position for a few days in the garage and they didn't move. I have also strapped the blade in the up position while working the three point attachment and the blade goes down with pressure and will break the strap. It is also dependent on the weight that the 3 pt is put under, when i lift something with any weight the spoon on the valve will move forward, if there is nothing attached to the 3pt and i just raise and lower the arms everything is fine unless i hold it in the up position after the arms are already up.
I don't know if it makes a difference but i think the valve is a log splitter valve. It has a detente for the up position. Also i can use the tractor all day and the blade will stay up until i raise the 3 pt attachment.
I dont know if this matters but the arm that raises the 3pt has a neutral position that you move it to when the implement is at the level that you want it to be at. It is not like other tractors that i have used where you just put the lever at the level you want it at and leave it.(hope that makes sense).
The manual sates there is an adjustment on how fast you want the 3pt to raise and lower. Right now it moves very fast and is hard to set at any position besides all the way up or down. i am going to try to adjust it this weekend.