Eddie-- sorry, I generally can only "play" on TBN early in the AM....Fortuantely, others picked up where I left off.
As my daughter (and my students) would say, BTDT! (Been there, done that!) So mant times, in fact, that's the first thing I check when working on a 220 circuit. Studor & Tallyho gave good descriptions of how that's supposed to work. Glad you got it all set now.
A couple of years ago, in the middle of the coldest stretch of winter, half of my main (200-Amp) breaker quit working-- THAT took a bit of time to track down; hadn't ever seen that happen before. Of course it was an old panel, and the manufactururer had been bought & sold so many times that --of course-- the breaker was no longer made. I was looking at having to replace the entire panel until someone suggested good ol' e-bay. Found an exact replacement in NJ, still in its dusty old box. Paid way too much for it, but it was still a lot cheaper than a new panel (with all new breakers, etc...) so I was happy to pay it. It was nice to have heat, hot water, water pump, and all that stuff back; gave the wood stove a good workout for over a week!