I think you may feel I am being critical of you, trust me I am not. This kind of stuff is interesting. I did respond to this thread with some info from your other thread, and that confused those that had not read both threads. The other thread has the pictures of the rock on the pallet, and the firewood, etc.
Anyway, for what it's worth, I'd suggest once you work through all your current testing and if you are still not satisfied that the tractor performs as it should, it would be nice to put some gauges on and see if the cylinders are getting proper pressure. (Maybe you have done this, I did not read back through this evening) If so, do a lift test with a pull scale and see if the lift and curl are at spec. If you have proper pressure and lack proper lift, I'd suspect a cylinder leaking by internally. Bumgravy is giving good advice on testing the cylinder.
Typically a QD that is malfunctioning and barely opening will make that circuit really slow. Or more often, one side or the other of the QD quits flowing altogether and that circuit just doesn't work. If the speed of the curl/tilt seemed near normal, then I doubt it was a bad QD. And flow = speed, pressure = power. So as long as the QD was flowing even a reasonable amount, the same system maximum pressure would get to your tilt/curl rams and it would lift the same amount, albeit more slowly. It may take longer if flow is restricted, but the pressure would still be there.
Best of luck on this, and thanks for keeping us informed. If you feel I am pulling this off topic and nothing said has been useful or helpful, just let me know and I'll bow out of trying to assist with this issue. I won't get my feelings hurt.

Sometimes I'll explain something thoroughly in a post not because you as the OP don't know it, but because a lot of folks read these forums and can gain knowledge from our experiences.