I had to look up your county, looks like your near San Antonio. I don't know that much about the area but I would assume that there is some rock involved, which makes it more expensive.
Here's what my educated advice is:
Your driller knows everything he needs to about the well. Around here most are 4", with a few 2", 5", and 6" sprinkled in. The minimum well for a submersible pump is 4", not counting the 3" grundfos makes, but that is a special case. Most likely your well will either be 4" or 5". It may or may not need cased all the way to the bottom. Here everything is cased all the way to the bottom with a screen. Some wells through rock need no screen or casing. Your geology and drillers experience will dictate that.
I like using sch 80 with threaded ends and either stainless, brass, or sch 120 pvc couplings. Depending upon the horsepower and GPM of the pump, your driller can tell you what works best in your area. I would highly adivse you to stay away from the polypipe that some use, but that is a very contensious topic and some may agree or disagree. JMO.
You probably will not need a pitless adapter, but can request one. No need for one in this part of the country.
I doubt you could save very much money DIY. Your driller already has the tools and equipment needed for this job and should have factored it in with the cost. Plus your driller has access to professional grade equipment, stay away from HD and Lowe's. They do not carry high quality WW supplies for the most part.
Goulds, Sta-Rite, Grundfos, Meyers, and Franklin make the best submersible pumps/motors. Your HP and GPM will depend on your pumping or static water level. A high static water level and well yield, the less HP you will need. You should be within the .5-1.5HP range, depending upon your particular situation.
If you want to save money I would simply have the site ready for the well. Have electricity ran (after the well is drilled) and your water pipe to the site to save on installation costs. Let him drill the well and set the pump/tank, then supply your own electricity and water pipe.
Good Luck!
Need some information on water wells. I need a well dug, from what I hear in my area I need to go down around 450 feet. at 16.50 a foot - ouch!
But here is what I don't know.
Do I need 4", 5" or 6" casing?
Will it be alright if I use sch 80 PVC with threaded ends?
Can I put the pump, pitless valve, piping etc myself and save some bucks?
Thanks for your input.
Mark