Sounds like you have good reason to be 'upset', and I hope in a week or less you get some satisfaction.
What is going on may just be the tip of an iceberg of problems. Sounds like Woods is having a problem, and that might be one of making the brackets for the Deere, that they are liable for any damage done to the Deere tractor. Maybe they are finding that their bracket doesn't protect the tractor housing enough to handle their backhoe. There is, IMO, a point at which putting on a piece of heavy equipment with lots of power, will over stress the tractor. This size tractor isn't very big and I wouldn't even think of putting a hoe on it, but I know there seems to be a desire to put hoe's on as small a unit as possible - and maybe this one is 'too' small for the size hoe of interest. Asking them to do something that they may know is wrong (I'd hope they would admit it if that is the case, and back off so you can take a different course of action) might be the reason they are in a quandry and not delivering. Must go beyond making some simple brackets so it will fit. Very interesting problem, and sorry anyone is left out this way.
I can't see where it's a Deere problem, other than the Deere dealer who owns his own business. If Deere was making the brackets, then yes, a Deere problem. Just my viewpoint, which doesn't always 'see' things clearly. /forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif
Wish you the very best.