Most ISO 5675 "AG" type will interchange, some have "balls" and some have "poppets" and technically will interchange with each other, but in general its not recommended.
If there is a specific fitting on your machine your trying the match, post any numbers off of it and I'll cross reference it for you. We also have a chart on the website showing the common "verified" fittings that we know about.
I checked the fittings on my tractors.
My IH has the poppet style female. No numbers could be read. My hay cutter has an ag style no numbers.
My NH has the poppet style female, push/pull type with the only readable being "PATENTED-O3G"
My NH also has after market for the
grapple plugged into the rear remotes male "PIONEER 8010-4P" '1/2 NPTF 09WX.
on the FEL connection for the
grapple female, poppet style, push, "PIONEER 4050-4P"
On the FEL connection for the
grapple male, ag style, "PIONEER 8010-4P 23 RX"
Note the Pioneer couplers were bought at the same time and installed by the
grapple dealer.
The male and female are of 2 different types, and of the 4 male, ag style, couplers have 2 different sets of numbers.