Gentlemen. If you want to get it tight the first time, but some nickel anti seize. The majority if the force required to tighten any "bolt" is in the friction resistance. By using a quality anti seizing compound you overcome the friction and require alot less effort to achieve the correct torque. It will also make removal alot easier. If you send me the grade of bolt and actual diameter I will send you the recommended torque value. The actual "gripping force" of the bolt requires only about 10-15% of the torque applied to the bolt, the rest of the force required is in overcoming friction in order to achieve the desired result.