draw yourself up a diagram of all the lights, brakes, switches, etc.... you have on trailer and how they connect. would by my first suggestion. with detail of how the ground wires also connect from each unit.
is there any diodes (think check valve for water, that lets electricity to flow only in one direction)
do you have a fuse box on trailer?
any switches? SPDT (single pull douple throw) or DPDT (douple pull double throw) manual switches you have to flip on/off yourself, relay switches, etc...?
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do you need to upgrade your pulling vehicle electronics / trailer plug to support reverse lighting? or redo any wiring on truck to get reverse to the trailer?
7 pin trailer plug is a big bottle neck...
left turn
right turn
running lights
brakes
charging battery on trailer
stop/brake lights
tail lights
"ground"
in above i just went to 8 wires min on truck/trailer plug. in order to get reverse from pulling vehicle to trailer.
your pulling vehicle trailer plug and electronics need to support reverse going to the trailer. simply tieing into reverse lights on the pulling vehicle can lead to blown fuses on pulling vehicle. to lights that barely light up at all.
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extra stuff....
is your pulling vehicle and trailer already setup to deal with charging battery on trailer? so when vehicle is shut off, you do not drain battery on pulling vehicle? and the charging circuit for battery on trailer setup only to turn on when vehicle is on?
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i just quickly drew up below diagrams, to give an idea how you might draw up some diagrams so you understand what goes were and how..
(paper and color markers work nicely)
COLORS ARE ALL WRONG in below diagrams
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