Happy to report I had a fantastic weekend with my tractor, finally able to relax and enjoy the ride a little and not worry about things so much. Regarding the overheating, I think the biggest thing has been to just slow down, rely on torque and not power, and not overload the mower/pto (RM42, which after all is a finish mower and I'm kind of using it as a brush hog). Coming uphill in Low-3 instead of High-1 has been a game changer, and there's been very little black smoke and no spit from the radiator overflow. Cetane has also been wonderful in getting the engine started like a dream.
There are likely still some issues that I need to sort out but as long as I don't ask too much of the machine for now I've got time to sort it all out. Over the next few weeks I'll check valve clearance, t-stat, and keep looking for signs of a leaking head gasket. But it's a great feeling now that I'm not convinced my engine is about to crack anyday now :thumbsup:
Thanks for the all the help, this place is great!
PS have NOT hooked up the temp gauge. Maybe mine will stay in the box too. But I do need to test the temp warning light still! And change that darn hydraulic fluid.