RobS said:
Now the real fun begins! I show up the next day and there's the camper!!! Turns out he (real brainiac) went down that night based on my description and found the thing. He was actually pissed that I had put a tongue lock on it as he then had to buy a 2" ball to fit up into the locked 2 5/16 hitch. Yes, he drug it back to his place on three wheels and only had to stop a "few" times to hitch back up as the thing bounced off the ball. You could see the scrape marks on the bottom of the tongue jack.
We wrapped up our paperwork and I got out of there fast. We did end up getting our own camper after that and I've repacked the wheel bearings religiously since.
Sadly, that was my Dad. Not that instance, but same thing(albeit with all four tires on the trailer, new in fact).
My Dad wanted to use my tractor. He lives about 20 miles away. I did not have a trailer at the time; he arranged to borrow a trailer. He was to tow it up here behind his Dakota, and then we would switch the trailer over to my 3/4 ton. then I would tow the tractor to his place.
Oh my!
He gets here. He had heard a thump on the way through our private roads. Well, we have a couple speed bumps... The trailer had bounced off the ball, and landed on the bumper. Turns out, he put the 2-5/16 trailer hitch on a 2" ball mounted to his back bumper(no reciever hitch). The trailer had no brakes, and the trailer lights wiring was a rats nest. It had only one safety chain.
Needless to say, I:
1 - Don't let my Dad tow any more
2 - Bought my own trailer, with correct size ball and trailer brakes
3 - Tow my own stuff, myself
4 - Do a walk around every time I tow; check lights, tires, tire pressure, electric brake check.
5 - I am also very particular to hook up my own trailers and double check wiring, safety chains, hitch lock etc. I have had need to rent equipment and trailers; the yard guys think I'm rude sometimes when I double check everything they just hooked up to my truck.
What bothers me, is my Dad used to tow farm equipment, races cars, cattle, grain etc growing up on the ranch. He know's how to secure a load very well. Apparently does not know how to size a trailer ball though...
I tow our Scout Troop trailer frequently; 14' enclosed dual axle with electric brakes. Other adults will try to help me hook up, but I curteously say no; I hook up and double check everything myself.