Wife and I got married after 5 months after we met (I was 37, I was certain this was the one). Wedding was at my "home" church about 500 miles away from where we lived.
Wedding "song" my wife and I danced to was by Lee Ann Womack. Because my dad loved the 40's big bad era as well, we had a DJ (in part for doing the wedding so quick).
Just as many Polkas as Glenn Miller.
I'd still at least want a Bryan Adams song in the wedding songs as well
All that said, seems wedding are becoming a big production now with how much money you can spend. I looked, what we spent on our complete wedding was $6,200 in todays times per inflation rate from 2005.
Look at my timing belt question recently here. Although my wife and I are really different people and at times complete opposites, we are so much alike in core values.