</font><font color="blue" class="small">( I would like to express complete support for our moderators. If somebody wants to write things they hope the moderators don't see, why would they use Muhammad's bandwidth to do so?
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This question isn't about the moderators. It is a question of privacy. If I were to want a discussion of a matter of religion, sex, law, medicine, or any other private matter with another member, I just want to know if this can be viewed by anyone else. Just like we have an expectation of privacy on your telephone or our mail. There is no paranoia[/] involved. You ask why "use Muhammad's bandwidth to do so?". The answer is simple. He has provided this as part of the system to communicate between members, and if he didn't want us doing this, then he wouldn't have provide it. It behooves me to understand why when anyone makes any comment about moderation, that a small group of people rise up and start to claim that the moderators are being vilified. No one is being vilified, but some things are being questioned. If these questions were answered intellegently and fully when first asked, there wouldn't be any further discussion. Are we to never ask a question of moderation, because some person or moderator might find that question offensive? If I were to send a PM to another person to discuss a matter of abortion, this might offend some moderators or the administration. If they didn't know of the discussion, they wouldn't be offended. This whole question of privacy could be answered quickly if Hakim or Muhammad would respond. There is no reason that this question should cause such decisiveness among us. It is a simple honest question that deserves a simple and honest answer. Nothing more. No accusatory finger pointing or questioning of the moderators motives, etc. I drop a grain of sand and the rest of you turn it into a mountain. This is the very thing that I have tried to avoid in the original phrasing of the question.