The only issue is when hooking up the backhoe, is the hyd. lines are pressured up from static sitting. I have to take a wood dowel, place it on the female side of hose fitting and hit it with a hammer. That releases the pressure and making the hose connection is much easier after that. Going to install LED work lights this weekend.
I noticed this issue with my backhoe as well, so here is what I do now:
Try to angle the boom so that there is as little loading on it as you can get.
After detaching it from the tractor but before disconnecting the lines, I raise it up using the stabilizers and put two solid wood blocks on each side and a 3rd forward where the boom attaches.
Lower it down onto the blocks, and then move the boom so that it just touches that forward block.
Turn the tractor off and relieve all pressure from the backhoe, stabilizers, boom, everything. If you have the blocks set correctly it won't move much at all.
Don't draw the stabilizers up, leave them out.
Now disconnect your lines. The blocks are supporting all the weight and with the stabs out it won't tip over if you walk into it and it won't pressurize as they try to fall down.
Been using the method repeatedly and has worked everytime for there to be no pressure when reconnecting the lines.