9973720wb19
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My wife and I are thinking about having a child together. Im 48 she is 42
We have both been married before and she has a 13 yr daughter who I consider my own (birth father dead). I had no children
We have been together for 4.5 yrs and married for 2.5 we have bumps along the way but both of us are commited to each other and will be together the rest of our lives.
She is healthy with no issues. I had a mild heart attack @42 but no issues since, lost weight and eat healthy and watch bp etc
We keep going around and around about this, what are your thoughts?
I once went around and around on buying a high end sports car when I was young and poor...it ended up being a mistake. My take away life lesson was "when in doubt, take a conservative position and back off". the fact that you have to "ask us" worries me - a bit. If your only reservation is related to health and age, ask a doctor to explain the risks. If your reservation is "do we want kids", I'd back off. Anyway, I wish you the best whatever you decide.