I've been following this debate for the last few years regarding stand alone vs PTO, even though that wasn't the what the OP asked, that's what this thread has become.
I've come to conclude that it's such a divisive issue, due to the fact that the two choices have such differing characteristics, almost shouldn't even be compared side by side.
The greatest difference is their rated capacity, in general standalones are under 10 kw and pto's are over 10 kw, Pto gennys can easily be up to 20 kw and higher for very reasonable money. Of course standalone power-plants can be had up to any kw output but those are off the charts price wise and are never compared to pto's in these forums.
So it comes down to how much power do you need/want. If you need over 10 kw then you pretty much need a pto, if you need less than 10 kw you can get a whiz banger. You can always draw 4 kw off a 15 kw pto gen, but obviously can't do that in reverse.
I've got a 10 kw pto and 3 stand alones 2-6 KW. It's true it does take attention to keep the pto in the correct hertz/volts range, especially with wide load changes. Never had to adjust the throttle on a standalone even going from zero to full load.
That manual regulation of voltage, even though they are called AVR is the pto's greatest downfall. The limited capacity is the standalones downfall.
For the OP I would recommend the 15 KW pto, it's the most versatile, run the whole house/barn or anything less.
I wish I got the 15 over the 10, at 15 KW there's really no argument to be made to compare to a whiz bang standalone.
JB.