I weld for a living, and fabricate at home even more. Sometimes I outfit crews, meaning gather the tools to outfit crews that are welding pipe and steel in remote locations where replacements are not available.
I have about 10 4-1/2grinders at home, both Milwaukee and Dewalts. Then you can throw in a couple odd ball ones from garage sales and such. I also keep several 9 inch Dewalts around, the old ones, copies of the black and decker wild cats. And for the little Cut Off wheels i use a Metabos. Then you can add the "they were going to throw it out" from work. I have to many grinders.
IMHO here is the break down.
The cheapest GOOD 4-1/2 grinder is the Dewalt, The milwaukee is better but larger and more expensive. For the money and durability that also keeps within OSHA's safety requirement the Dewalt is hard to beat, but they don't last forever, and the plugs are horrible. Please remember that we are welding 12 hours shifts and using these all day every day. They still last several months being abused.
There are better grinders, and more opinions. Dewalts are everywhere, and cheap. But they have a lot of different models, RPM's, and grades
I LOVE the Metabo's for cutting off steel, the 1/16" wheels are great. I will not use a locking on-off switch on a grinder. I have the scars to show why. Please remember that the Metabo turns at a high RPM, AND SOME DISKS ARE NOT RATED FOR THIS. the cheaper the disk the lower the rating.
Almost everyone makes a larger than 4-1/2 inch but smaller than the 9 inch. these work great for some jobs with out the weight.
One thing i do like to do is to keep with one brand of grinder, then when things are slow we take our junk grinders and start the Frankenstein process. Tear 6 apart and put 4 together.