Scooby074
Super Member
I loosen the coupler till it comes off the hose
I think your loosening the wrong part. The coupler needs to be threaded onto the hose (or rigid pipe) FIRMLY. The part you loosen is the KNURLED part. The far end in other words, the part that goes onto the zerk. If you look inside the coupler you'll see some jaws, sort of like a drill chuck. It behaves in the same way, when you loosen the knurled part it spreads the jaws. When the couplers are new they can be very tightly screwed together from manufacturing, Sometimes you need to use pliers on the knurled section to loosen it for the first time. After that you should be able to adjust the jaws by hand.
Good on Lincoln for sending you some couplers although i dont believe you need them. They stand behind their products.