Something isn't quite right here... My
L3400 with FEL has three separate OEM relief valves.
First is the main relief, located under the right side floorboard and controls the maximum pressure the pump puts out. ~2300 psi.
Next is the relief located on the loader valve, set at ~2250 psi.
Finally there is the relief located on the three point valve, which although I haven't checked, should be equal to or less than 2300 psi. Additionally, my aftermarket remote valve has a built in relief set at 2000 psi.
Unless the tractor is designed to operate at 3200 psi (highly unlikely), the main relief valve is not set correctly. The reason you don't see 3200 psi at the loader is because the loader valve is relieving properly at 2500 psi.
If the main relief were set properly, you wouldn't have 3200 psi available anywhere. Check your manual under the spec section, it should list max hydraulic pressure. There is a chance your main relief is set properly for 3200 psi, but I very much doubt it should be that high. If the dealer can't figure out how to adjust something that simple, you need to start looking for one that can.
The general rule of thumb is that each separate circuit (with directional valve controlling it) will have a relief valve adjusted to it's required maximum pressure limit.
Sean