sixdogs
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Sticking with a low common denomnator and addressing as a black and white issue will solve more problams than a series of grey area issues. Black or whiite, yes or no, deed or not. And you have a deed and there are pins in the ground. A person that is someone you shouldn't deal with from a trust standpoint is one who will try to divide and muddy the issues to throw you off task. Don't take the bait. Black and white, yes or no, your way since you have the deed. Don't try to be nice but don't try to be mean. Simple conversation and since he knows he loses that way, subterfuge will be the issue of the day. Grey areas only escalate and you need to de-escalate in every sentence.
Having been where you are, that's what I learned. Black and white, zero grey issues and no back and forth words that escalate. WWAGD? (What would Andy Griffith do?) As well, try to walk in his shoes. Why would he act this way? He might know the ropes but is trying to save face with the girlfriend. Find an out where he can save face or don't force an issue where he can lose face with the woman. That coud be more of an issue than the "legal" one. Foist the risk of proof onto him and walk away. Just my long-winded two cents.
EDIT---In first para I meant to say "survey" rather than "deed".
Having been where you are, that's what I learned. Black and white, zero grey issues and no back and forth words that escalate. WWAGD? (What would Andy Griffith do?) As well, try to walk in his shoes. Why would he act this way? He might know the ropes but is trying to save face with the girlfriend. Find an out where he can save face or don't force an issue where he can lose face with the woman. That coud be more of an issue than the "legal" one. Foist the risk of proof onto him and walk away. Just my long-winded two cents.
EDIT---In first para I meant to say "survey" rather than "deed".
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