I agree that it would be best for Sandy to adapt to a wild life. That is the best of all options.
However, that isn't going to happen simply by letting her go. And we are not preventing her form going. She is not equipped to "go" and survive. That is the the very problem that we are dealing with here. She has not been trained by her mother to hunt and survive, so she most likely will be bird feed before long. She will not learn the ropes by us simply refusing her food or shelter. In the meantime, as a pup, she is taking control of her life to the degree she can imagine. She is moving out and setting up her own den, getting the feel of being alive in a big world, seeing who else is out there and how to interact.
The problem is that so many people think the answer to anything they don't understand is to shoot it, or report it to authorities, or spread fear, or butt into business that has nothing to do with them. Sandy is feared by people that have no rational basis for their fear about her in particular. So, a collar is at least some identity that "might" save her from simply being used as a target by somebody looking for something to shoot. I'm only willing to shoot real threats, but that's not always the case with others.
The problem with a collar, as I see it, is that if she returns to the wild with one on it will strangle her eventually. So I've thought of spray painting one on that would last long enough for her to assimilate and then wear off. Someone might see it and hesitate before shooting as they wondered if she was a regular dog or something. Eventually she would disappear into the wild and be "gone".
Recent developments are that my neighbor has asked a vet she knows what to do about rabies vaccine for Sandy. The vet was clear that it was illegal for her to treat a coyote. The vet also recommended I call the animal control people for advice. What?! That sounds like a setup.
My other neighbor is telling her friends that I should get rid of Sandy now. So she is also a problem waiting to happen.
This will eventually come to a head and be over. Hopefully it will be a good ending and not some animal control officer throwing a net over her and gassing her in a box somewhere. Even that would probably be better than her being shot. Either ending would be a heartbreaker for us. And the reason it would be a heartbreaker, is that we know her better than anyone and we not only are not afraid of her but we relate to her as a friend. We trust her, we are fascinated by her and she trusts us. Simple as that.
Some folks are genuinely curious and some are knee jerk scared. One will hold Sandy and cherish her, the other will recoil and stay way back. Sandy simply is Sandy. Some are immediately scared of a little puppy, and some want to pet her and talk to her. No one has been threatened or hurt. No one has seen anything that a normal dog wouldn't do. Here's the bottom line: Some are curious and some are reactionary. Some wonder at the natural world that surrounds us and some hide in fear of it.
We are a stable, trusted and sensible couple that are curious about our surroundings. Neighbors look to us for support, advice and friendship. We value life and the wildlife around us. In fact, we chose this place, in part, because of all of it's natural wonder and wildlife. We have other dogs and love them. We are not stupid enough to take chances with the mountain lions, bears and rattlesnakes that also live near us. I am always armed when I go out into the open lands, which I do a lot. In fact, I spend a great deal of my time exploring the mountains around us. I'm not a hunter, but I will protect my family and myself if needed, and I'm prepared to do so.
All of this factors into this whole situation. Believe me, if Sandy walked away tomorrow and into a life in the wild where she could take care of herself, I would be overjoyed. A beautiful, strong, healthy, smart and very self aware little neighbor would be realizing her true potential and living the life she was designed for. Good. Excellent. Beautiful.
I saved her from certain death and gave her, at the last minute before she froze to death, at least a chance of life. She brought information from the wild about herself and her world that is tremendously touching, beautiful and fun. Now it's controversy, laws, fear driven advice, gossip, and threats. All around a little puppy. It's disgusting.
And before some of you naysayers jump in with all the "what ifs", I want to assure you that I'm not saying all coyotes are fine and that none of them are dangerous. I'm not saying they don't kill valued farm animals and that they don't carry disease. I'm not saying they should be blindly accepted under all circumstances. Not at all. But, I am saying that most people don't understand them at all. That too many folks are fear driven without logic and that any dog owner or dog lover already knows a lot about coyotes. In fact I'll expand it to say that anyone with a bit of curiosity and a heart would likely be interested in learning more about the wild world all around us, and in particular, a very interesting dog that is a significant part of that world.
So, back to our regularly scheduled programming. Thanks again to you all that have given us good advice. Thanks to you all that have shown support to this little underdog. The little desert survivor. This evening, once again, Sandy is well and completely oblivious to all the turmoil her existence has stirred up.
She went out this morning at 5:30, as the day began. A stretch and a look at the possibilities in front of her, I imagine. Untethered, she then trotted off to her new den, the one she developed, and settled for a morning nap. Later, Liye called and got no response from the sleepy dog. So she sent Bei Bei to get her. Bei Bei went right to the den and ventured only half way in. Some conversation must have ensued, and the pair came back to liye. Sandy looking very sleepy and Bei Bei wagging her tail as fast as ever.