Throw me in the camp that has never seen an automatic allow 2nd gear starts manually.
The automatic chooses the best ratio at the time. IF you are easy with the pedal, sometimes that is second gear. If you tromp it from a dead stop, thats 1st gear.
While I agree that a second gear start for some is helpful, its all about pedal control. 1st gear has the ability to do everything 2nd gear can do, but given a lower gear ratio, the pedal is more touchy since you have lots more torque available. IF traction will only permit 100ft-lbs before slip, and 1st gear gives you 500ft-lbs and second allows only 250, you have better control, but still nothing that cannot be done in 1st with good pedal control.
But 90% of my vehicles in the past have either been small manual cars, or 4wd trucks, So I never had any issues.
AS to the CVT, The wifes car is a 08 Sentra with CVT and ~130,000miles. No trouble at all. And I cannot say anything bad about the trans in snow. IT handles just like you would expect a car with wide-low profile- all season tires to handle.
I will add this about automatic transmissions though. Especially important for trucks. Selecting 1 on the shifter does more than just locking it in 1st gear. Selecting 1 applys the low-reverse band. Not only does that give you engine braking, but its like adding a second clutch for high torque starts. Instead of just relying on the clutch pack holding when you are trying to tow near max load, it adds that band and lessens slip and wear.
It is also a great diagnostic feature. IF your transmission looses reverse, first thing to try is see if you have 1st gear engine breaking. If you do not, you likely have a worn out low-reverse band. Since that band also drives the reverse gears.