Do you guys lay awake at night thinking about all this stuff? Or is it the nightmares?
Yup. Put a known weight on the tailgate and measure the drop. 200, 400, 600, 800 etc...
That's what I did initially for measuring. With an accurate scale it's the same as just weighing the tongue IF you do the math correctly.Have you ever tried this? It is surprisingly inaccurate.
When I did it I changed one parameter from how they describe to do it on etrailer, I used a triangular fulcrum rather than a round one.I have experimented with it, and it was not accurate at all. Could not repeat the measurements no matter how carefully I set up the apparatus. So I bought one of the commercial grade scales and my best measurements with the bathroom scale were off by almost 200 lbs.. A 30% error.
You could also get a hydrualic rated tee and a pressure gauge, then put the tee/gauge just before the quick connect on the pump so you can always see how much pressure you are using.If you have a hydraulic port-a-power you can do the same thing. I used a little 2" pancake cylinder. Gotta pump the cylinder up and hold it there in a vise or something (so it dont retract when the porta power is unhooked). So with it extended and full of oil, insert a pressure gauge.
A 2" cylinder has a surface area of 3.14 sq in. So every 3.14 pounds will register 1 PSI on the gauge.
Use a 0-100PSI gauge and you have a 314# scale
Or use a 0-10,000PSI gauge and you have a 31400# scale.
Or anything in between. If you have a different size cylinder, just do the math to get the ratio of PSIounds
what about this method
To get an approximate idea you could try this. Lets say you want 600# on the tongue. Park on a level surface and measure the bumper height. Next find a couple friends that weight a total of 600# and have them stand on the bumper. Measure the drop in height. Hitch the trailer and compare the drop to what you had before.
PS: asking the wife to stand on the bumper is not recommended!
Tom