Here are my opinions.
If it was a gun you actually wanted to have for other uses, I'd say pay 200$ more than a hi point and get a Rock Island basic 1911. they routinely go for 375$ at discounters, and if you look hard, farming/sports stores like rural king sometimes have 'flash' sales and will sell them for a whopping 349$.
That gets you a fully functional 1911 with basic finish, basic smooth wood grips and a single mag, plus a plastic box. A no frills 1911 for sure.. but a good one. I got one.. love it.. not bad right out of the box, it hits anything I can.
That said.. lets face it.. lookign at gunbroker.. Hi point 45's are a minscule 149$ that's... that's the price of taking your wife to the movie, buying 2 large drinks and popcorn, and then hitting a mid+ grade steakhouse and ordering something larger than 8oz or something with claws and a red tail, plus a couple drinks.
As for recoil? the hi point 45 is a brick... even in 45 it just doesn't recoil bad. My mother has a snubby air weight alloy frame 38.. it is SO light that it actually has more felt recoil than my 6" python.
True, a revolver is easier to operate than a semi auto in a panic.. IE.. grab, aim, and pull the trigger, whereas the semi auto will need the slide racked.
The issues you need to see to choose between a revolver and the semi auto are:
doing a DA pull thru on some revolvers, especially snubs, can make them wildly inacurate unless that is your trained gun. a 1/2" deflection of the bbl at the shooters hand, by the time you get to 10-15' away can be a few feet! thus a panicked DA pull thru might be throwing flyers. The semi auto will have a cleaner trigger.. even the 150$ guns.... however then you have the time delay for the slide, and the slide itself.... some people with weaker hands can't operate a slide.
My wife and mother for instance. neither can operate a standard slide on anything other than a ruger 22 that has the bolt at the rear to pull back on. I have let them try the slides on small blowback guns like .380 and .32acp, all the way up to 1911's.. neither can reliably operate a slide, and if they do, it takes them time and you can see they are struggling. I have not tried them on one of those slide assist levers.. but they are rather bulky.. might be ok for the range.. but not for the tuck and grab gun. Both of them however can shoot a revolver... my mother has the air frame as I mentioned, and the wife has a taurus 85. I'm not a wheelgun guy ( I make an exception for anything named python or anaconda and made by colt

) I like semi auto myself.
Another option would be some sore of 1 or 2 bbl derrenger type gun that fires SA.. you can get them in calibers all the way into the high 40's. that or just teach the shooter to use the revolver in SA fashion ( make sure you get a SA/DA model and not DAO ).
Sounds like the High Point would be a good, cheap, and reliable weapon to replace the little Ruger.
My question is, how much more does the .45 kick compared to the 9mm? I want something my wife would be comfortable shooting.
But then again when the SHTF my normally calm intelligent wife tends to panic. So maybe a double action revolver would be the ideal for that use. Point and shoot, no safeties, no mag release button.
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RSKY