Irv,
It's really a mixed bag here ... and fits are not uncommon ...
On the one hand, help with
cleaning is appreciated (provided it's done under her close supervision) ... although Cupcake will be the first to tell you (or rather: me ...
almost constantly ...

) that I have no clue what I'm doing when it comes to cleaning (Shyeah, right ... :laughing
That from the woman who has to (pre) clean everything ...
before she can have the cleaning people in, to clean the house ... :confused2:
Today, when she got home, I had emptied the island, cleaned the inside, and got about half of what was in there run thru the dishwasher and put back away in an organized manner.
She liked that ... although she expressed some doubt as to whether we had enough room to lay everything out in such an organized way. (Yeah, we probably don't ... which is why a bunch of crap is going ... who needs two identical food processors ... or two or three waffle irons ?)
On the other hand, she figures
ME just doing it is some kind of condemnation of her, and her housekeeping skills ...
It really isn't, it just a recognition that it needs done (regardless of
who does it) and that she doesn't have the time (currently working 6 days) and I do, and that she spent a good part of her free time on her days off this summer helping me outside get done what I wanted done.
She is very particular ... which is why when it comes to cleaning I operate on the
better-to-ask-for-forgiveness-than-to-ask-for-permission basis ...
:laughing: