The oil life monitor is easy to reset if the dash message annoys you. Turn key to run position but do not start, depress accelerator pedal fully to the floor 3 times in about 3 seconds, then turn key from run to start, allowing motor to start. Let it run a little then turn off. Should be reset to 100% oil life. Gets rid of dash message, go by your preferred mileage intervals. I run regular Rotella 15w40 at 5k changes in my Ford diesels. Could probably go longer, sometimes do, due to life circumstances, but I aim for 5k.
Diesel oil picks up alot more soot than gas motors, and for that reason I do not like the idea of longer oil change intervals. The oil may not be broken down yet, but is so contaminated with soot that I prefer to change it at 5k, using standard dino oil. Synthetic has its place, if you like... in gas motors, where the longer changes make use of the expensive oil, without the soot contamination.