On a sidenote, I believe we all learn from experience.
It's easy to read what to do and what NOT to (such as speed/breaks) but it's another to learn from experience, particularly when it comes to driving in bad weather.
In my early 20's, I was the idiot behind the wheel when it came to driving in bad weather. For some strange reason, never wanted to listen to my father. Coming back from winter dive with 2 loose tanks in a VW Golf, and decided to take the back road instead of the major highway in a snowstorm due to bad traffic. Rolled that puppy down a hill (think I took 2 complete rolls) and had to climb out the drivers side window to get out. How I wasn't killed no clue. Wasn't going fast, but fast enough.
The only thing I we can hope for is we all learn from experience and grow from it. Glad to say haven't had a fender bender in over 20 years now no matter what kind of weather I drive in (knock on wood).
As for all the new gadgets in vehicles now, no different than 4WD IMO. It's nice, but sometimes I believe it gets people into trouble because they figure they don't have to worry or actually know what do to, and sometimes, they get more careless because they figure the vehicle can handle it.
I was watching a video a friend posted on facebook with him driving in bad weather the other month. Guy is in his early 40's, prior military, pretty sharp guy in some aspects. That said, he was doing over 60MPH in snow covered roads, passing people (people had their flashers on driving slow as it was also snowing pretty bad) in the passing lane and right lane, and he seemed proud of of his driving skills. The only thing I could think of was what a freaking idiot. Sooner or later, driving fast in bad weather is going to bite you big time. Apparently he has never learned that.