It's looking like a Kioti CK4010.
Slightly more than we were looking at at the beginning but......
It's essentially the same as the CK 3510. We can go without the creature comforts / uplifts on the SE version, and the "plain" model can be uplifted with everything but the tilt wheel.
We're looking at about $35K all in (tax included) for the tractor, loader, backhoe, medium grade bush hog, extra valve, 2 detents on the backhoe controls, and a floor mat.
We were amazingly impressed with the beefiness of the tractor, the ergonomics, the quick attach accessories, the ease of removing the backhoe. But - we were most impressed with the owner of the place. Several benefits there - he'd should Kubota for years, so he's knowledgable. They are a premier deal with Kioti, and the President of Kioti lives in a nearby community and sends "newbie" regional sales managers there to be "trained". He was the first person that started up the tractor and said "take it for a spin". He said they are 15 minutes from the plant / distribution center. If you call in the AM with an order for a part, they will likely have your part available by 2-3PM. They also keep a nice trailer so customer's can borrow and move their tractors home, etc. They didn't seem interested in nickel and dimeing us to death with fees and add ons.
the tractor is a decent width, has good weight to it, and one of the best features is that it has a very high stated capacity on the bucket - which we feel will be he most used implement longer term. (Shorter term it might be some pallet forks to move things around - and the higher capacity will help there too)
So - quite a bit more than the plan (no surprise there - as that seems to be our MO with everything we do - sigh) but feel good about both the tractor and the dealer.
You folks were instrumental in teaching us, and suggesting we look at Kioti as a common theme - not sure we would have done that without the recommendations / knowledge of this community. Should be getting it in a week or so - spouse in Korea (weird...) so can't complete all the paperwork until we're both here.
Stay tuned - will at least provide some initial thoughts and experiences. And thanks again for all the knowledge sharing.