two_bit_score
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I'm soon to be 58. I work with a lot of guys much younger than me. Most, if not all of them, have at least one tattoo. Most have multiple tatoos. All of them are hard working, honorable guys. Work hard. Play hard. Responsible guys with wives, kids, mortgages, etc.... I'm proud to call them my friends.![]()
I agree, the only thing that a tattoo indicates to me is that they decided to gat a tattoo at some point.
Beyond that, they may have gotten it 10 years ago and completely changed their life since then, but the presence or absence of a tattoo by itself does not indicate anything about how they will act.
Personally, I would not get one but that's just me and if someone else wants to get one, that's their business.
Aaron Z
Almost every time the question of tats come up someone is going to trot out the same line of defense of people with tats like they have to justify their friendship with those people and proclaim that good people have tattoos. ‘Responsible....family....changed lives...got it in younger days....hard working....mortgages....etc, etc’.
I never understood why they felt the need to defend their friends tattoos to such extent. I didn’t say everyone with a tattoo was a serial killer, dead beat, drunk, wife beating, scumbag. They aren’t.
But the fact that people are so sensitive about defending tattoo wearers tells me that they recognize difference of some negative connotation enough of the time to feel the need to jump to the defense.
And everyone who has a tat knows it’s recognized by other people. Some go to great extent to be sure their tats are very visible and prominent. They are sending a message, often very strongly, with their tats.
Some people regret getting them. Our son had a friend sleeves on both arms. He was a responsible business owner with a family and was a great father to his kids and husband to his wife. He regretted the tats and told me that he would do everything he could to make sure his kids did not get them.
Some people get them for a reason in a discreet place and the casual acquaintance or even friend never knows. It’s really “to each his own”. I’m glad we have that right. It can revel something about the person displaying the tattoo. But so can many, many other verbal and nonverbal indicators. You have to read the person carefully and individually.
TBS