Do you monitor your ground loop temperature? Be curious to know what it gets down to when the system is working hard for a long time in extreme cold ambient temperatures. Do you know what your lower limit cutoff temperature is? I think the real concern for me is if the geo runs so much that the ground loop doesn't have time to recover. At a minimum that can just mean the system makes less and less heat and/or won't be able to keep up, but if you hit the lower limit the system will cut off. I believe my lower limit is set to 10F for our particular methanol/water mix.
Last year we had some -5F ambient temps and my geo system was working very hard. It cut off a few times, which made me think the lower limit was triggered, but when I hooked up the diagnostic tool the next day, turns out it cut off due condensate drain overflow errors. That had me scratching my head, since the system should only be generating condensate in the summer with AC. Come to find out the drain line for our steam humidifier froze up and it back flowed up the common drain pipe and into the geo unit's condensate tray, triggering the overflow sensor.
The other problem we had was that we lost power a couple times overnight when the temperature was that low. I assume it was due to excessive demand on the utility. Every time that happened, the geo unit would go into a random purge delay before starting back up, and the humidifier would go through a drain/refill cycle. With a frozen drain line, that would then trigger the geo's overflow sensor all over again and it would not start up.
This winter, I put a valve on the drain line and now isolate the geo unit from the humidifier during the peak of heating season. If the drain line freezes the humidifier will cut off without flooding anything else, and we can certainly live without a humidifier.