The MP of the camera will not determine the "nightvison" ability of the camera. The lux rating will be what you want to pay attention to get a feel for how the camera will handle low light. Consumer grade CCTV use IR illumination to get "nightvison", basically just a frequency of light we can't see with out naked eye but the camera can. Most consumer grade camera will give color images in the daylight and a so so image at night. Generally speaking, the better the camera - better the low light ability.
As for cable, I know you said you don't want to go wireless but anymore that is where the entire industry is heading. I do some CCTV work for my job and get to attend one of the top professional shows for CCTV and 99% of it is wireless. IF done correctly and with good quality gear the wireless systems will preform as well as any wired system. I used to design and install commercial CCTV systems and in those times everything was BNC W/Coax - now I wont consider that as it really is outdated and limits what you can do without additional gear.
If you go wireless you can encrypt the signal, run on different frequencies to avoid interference, and honesty jamming is really not an issue in the real word. If the person "visiting" your residence is up to speed on jamming a system, has all the eqpt, and is going to that much work you need to be very concerned! The nice thing about wireless is not only can you run on standard WiFi you can also have a back up 4G (soon to be 5G) network and cloud storage so even if they burn down the house the images the CCTV system caught are safely stored on a remote server. Just some food for thought.....