Don稚 you think this is a bit weird? Your daughter monitors her childrens every movement and knows everywhere they go. Not allowed to think because mom does it for them. In exchange mom does all the housework. Cooks dinner every night and scrub toilets, does everybody痴 laundry. Works her butt off being a servant to the family and then runs around all night taking kids to sports practices and games.
I知 not picking on your daughter specifically. This is the societal norm. Don稚 tell me I知 the only one that thinks this is messed up. I think kids need to be allowed to be kids. They need to be given limits and responsibilities and expected to live up to them. They need to be given opportunities to fail and learn the lessons necessary for success next time and learn that there are consequences also.
This might surprise you but kids are a lot different now than they used to be. They don稚 go out with friends nearly as often. They don稚 drive as early or as often. They don稚 even drink or do drugs nearly as often as our generations did. Cars are safer now. The world is a safer place now. Yet somehow our kids aren稚 allowed to play past the backyard or be outside the range of a cell phone and would rather sit indoors on Snapchat where theyæ±*e safe.