That痴 unacceptable. Lawyers have an ethical duty to communicate with their client. Find a new lawyer. (And I am in the profession...Have little tolerance for lawyers that disparage the rest of us through incompetence).
I am not willing to split the money pie anymore. FL is stealing over 42k and forcing me to pay my step bro and sister even though they had nothing to do with me or my mother! . It's called the elected share and the surging spouse can steal up to 30%.