I neglected to mention that you could also test your relay by pulling it. The individual blades should be numbered on the bottom. If you search online for a typical 12 volt relay wiring, blade 86 should be your power source signal wire (energizes the electromagnet in the relay) and blade 85 should be your ground. If you hook up 85 to a ground source and tap 86 with a 12 volt power source, it should audibly click. No click means the relay is dead. It could also mean you don't have your testing wires hooked up correctly, but i'm presuming you've already verified 12 volt power and a ground.