My man, never has the term "preaching to the choir" been more appropriate! That's exactly me, and I've been thinking up all sorts of ways how to add to my backhoe to make it more grapple-like. I even got a thread on it milling around here on TBN. I was actually thinking reverse of your setup, ie, leaving the thumb as is, and instead having some sort of claw thingie instead of the bucket, mounting it via quick-attach. I even ordered a quick-attach bracket and a ripper tooth mount (which I was gonna weld a claw on) from a certain vendor, but I wasn't too happy with the quality. But now I think your ripper shanks added to the thumb is a better idea, may have to rethink this!
I notice you got a hydraulic thumb too, I was thinking just mechanical. My method now for picking something off the ground, I position the backhoe so that the thumb makes contact with the ground at around 90 deg, and then curl the bucket to grab the tree limb or whatever. Having the thumb jaw longer and with more curve would definitely help there.
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