Agreed.
Many yeas ago we thought we wanted a bigger house. My father drew up the plans and we took them to a builder. The builder, an old Amish fellow, sat down with us and went over everything and really liked the plans. It was something like 3000 sq ft. Then he looked around our current house: 720 sq ft, 2 bed, 1 bath.
He asked how long it took us to vacuum the house?
Oh, about 15 minutes.
He said it would take an hour on the new one.
He asked how long it took us to clean the bathroom?
Oh, about 20 minutes.
He said it would now take an hour to clean 3 bathrooms.
He asked what our utilities were?
We told him.
He said to at least double them, maybe more.
He asked how old our child was and if we were planning on any more?
3 and yes.
He said in 20-25 years the last one will leave for college, then you'll be 2 people living in an empty mausoleum.
Well, that kinda talked us out of that.
We purchase a 1300 sq ft used house and it's suited us well for the past 25 years.