Sigarms
Super Member
Personally I think mandatory service in our country would be a good thing.Yep, I did the same. But in reference to the teenager issue, it usually gets better, and hopefully sooner than later.
He and you may not have any interest in this, but the Military can be the answer to young people growing up in a hurry. At least for some.
My father was career Air Force.
I enlisted in the Army. My dad thought I was a dumb SOB because that's why he put his time in and he didn't want me carrying a gun.
This one (former truck owner) wants to go into the Marines. I was a little hurt and asked him why the Marines. He told me because he doesn't want to be killed so that's why the army is out (I laughed my butt off). I asked him about why not the Air Force, he informs me that there are too many gay people in the Air Force.
My wifes uncle was just over for a family get together. He's a marine. A cub scout leader who I worked with and his son are Marines. More than a couple of Marines have talked with him.
Thing is, kid is so shy about his privacy, I try to explain to him when you're taking a crap or a shower, there are no stalls (have they put them in now? LOL).
End of the day, military will either make him or break him.
My other boy is going into the Air Force. Want's to do security, get out, go to college and then become a LEO. I know plans can change, but at least he's formulated a a plan. Let him talk with a cousin currently serving in the Air Force, he told him his buddies in security thinks it's boring and sucks. The way this one boy sees it, he gets paid, military pays his housing, meals and medical, and he still thinks it's worth 4 years because he can save all his money, and stick to his plan.