and he does not care that most of the electricity is also made out of fuel.
I've seen this stated a few times, and it really shows a lack of understanding on two fronts:
1. Where our electricity actually comes from in 2023
2. Efficiency of a power plant + transmission system + BEV versus that of an ICE.
First point, the largest part of our electrical power came from coal until about 2015, when it crossed over with natural gas. Coal has been on a continuous and almost linear tumble down over the last several decades, in fact we've cut it by more than half in the last 10 years alone. Gas is on the rise, thanks to low cost (shale / fracking), and renewables have been on an almost equal rise.
Even without any acceleration from the continuous research and development that is happening today on renewables, you can see that they and nat.gas will be our dominant sources for the future. More realistically, we know that natural gas will plateau, and renewables will continue to rise. Coal is as much as dead, and oil never really contributed (see "other").
Second point, legacy ICE's are about 25% efficient, meaning 75% of the fuel they burned went to heat with 25% contributing to motive power. In recent years, many cars (not mine) have pushed this up to 40%, but that is where we have plateaued with the gasoline engine. With the average car on US roads today being 11.5 years old, our national fleet efficiency is somewhere between these two numbers, perhaps 30 - 35% net.
Meanwhile, the newer combined-cycle natural gas power plants built today operate around 60% net efficiency. Even the older simple cycle plants ran above 40% net efficiency. When combined with nuclear and renewables (both 100% carbon efficient), the mix of power charging your BEV is achieved at a net efficiency likely double that of your ICE's own fuel consumption.
So, yes... some electricity "comes from fuel", as you rather simply put it. But when considering the fuel sources and efficiencies involved, the statement really loses its meaning. Wind is fuel, uranium is fuel... and nearly zero of your electricity comes from oil.