I think one thing to consider in retirement is what it costs you to live.
We won't have a mortgage. We have never had a car payment either. I don't imagine we will be making payments in retirement, since we didn't while raising a family ($$$). My son is the last to leave the nest this coming fall, and currently our monthly expenses hover around $2000-$2500. Once I stop feeding him, I'll save a little more![]()
And then you will have grands and your wife will go shopping all the time for something one of the grands 'needs'. Translation, she/he would look cute in this!!
And then you feed them all every Sunday and end up with your kids, their spouses, and five grands sitting around the table pigging out. And there is the two year old we babysit two/three days a week that eats like an adult.
But it is worth it and you will be surprised how much your priorities gradually change when the grandkids arrive in the world.
RSKY