Thanks for the update. It would put a strain on your truck for sure but that sounds extreme. A cubic yard of road base typically weighs around 2,600 to 2,860 pounds, which would be about 3.5 yards for 10,000 pounds. I could certainly tell when I had 6 yards of topsoil, at least 12,000 pounds of material, in my dump trailer behind my GMC 35000HD with the 6.6 Duramax/10 speed Allison combo. In Tow/Haul mode it pulled it without issue, running up through the gears to 55 MPH. Stopping was my concern but that was enhanced with the trailer brakes and exhaust brake.
I learned my lesson. I now limit my topsoil loads to 5 yards to avoid any issues. For reclaimed asphalt, 2,700 to 2,800 pounds per yard, I only get 4 yards. I have 11,250# of payload capacity so I am maxed out on weight, but it is only 6 miles to the yard to load on flat Farm to Market roads, no highway travel. I also upgraded to Hartland Load Range G tires after 2 of the Load Range E tires failed after a trip, fortunately after I got home.