Well, an update for any of you who are interested. My closest Ford dealer looked at it today, pretty much all they did was run a diagnostic test on it, pull two coil packs off, and say yep, looks like all the plugs are rusted and they will probably break off too. They didn't have any interest in trying to get the plugs out, their solution was to quote a price on a remanufactured motor for $5600 bucks. I said forget that, quote me a price on pulling the heads off, and trying to salvage the motor, that was $3900. I said forget that too, put it all back together. They charged me $125 for that little bit of nothing.
So, I picked up the phone and called another mechanic I knew I could trust about it. He explained that due to a bad back he didn't work on engines anymore (he has a shop in his yard and works by himself). He mostly agreed with the Ford dealer that maybe the best thing was to replace the motor. In the past he had seen issues with reworking just the top half of a motor. It can increase the compression and bad things can sometimes happen. He did that once to a motor, $2200 to rebuild the top half and a few weeks later he wound up having to replace the whole motor. That poor fellow shot $2200 down the drain real quick.
As a last resort, he did recommend another friend of his that runs a garage not far from my house. Called this guy up and he was willing to look at it so, it's already there now. He was going to pull all the coil packs off today before he left and spray the plugs good with some penetrating fluid, let it soak over the weekend, and then try and see if he could break any of the other plugs free on Monday.
We will see what happens, cross your fingers.....