And kinda scary sometimes. I got -33% in 2008! :shocked:
:laughing: I can laugh about it now.... sorta.

We lost about 30% of our net worth on paper in 2008, but listened to our advisor, stayed with our plan, didn't move funds around and kept putting 15% of our income into buying shares in our 401k plans which have several different mutual funds each while the price was down. By 2010 we were back to the same level as 2008, but with many more shares than what we would have had at high prices. So when the markets took off again, BOOM! off we went. So, it was a two year stagnation period that we had to ride out. Had I been closer to retirement, I would have had our funds in less risky mutual funds.... maybe.
When I was in my early twenties, I set a goal of having a million dollars in the bank when I retired. That seemed like a lot of money back then. But as you get older and wiser, you realize a million dollars is not all that much... unless you have nothing, then its a ton! :confused3:
I tell my friends to think of it this way.... if you make $25,000 per year for 40 years, you've made a million dollars. If you're married and your spouse also makes $25,000 per year, she'll do the same. So a married couple, each making $25,000 per year will have made a million dollars after just 25 years of marriage. We all got married around 24-25 years old. Now we're all 50ish..... and all of us make better than $25,000 per year.... then I look them in the eye and ask, "Where did your million dollars go?" Their eye focus almost immediately goes off to space as they try to calculate the numbers in their head and they go quiet real fast. While they're seeing visions of burning cash in their past, I tell them...
You ate it.
You slept under it.
You drove it.
You fed it.
You clothed it.
You sent it to school.
Some of you took it to Hawaii.
You drank some of it, too.(I was there with you) :laughing:
Hopefully you didn't lose your job.
Hopefully you didn't have a major health catastrophe.
Some of you divorced it, too.
Hopefully you saved some of it and invested wisely.
And that usually puts a damper on the evening. :laughing:
My wife elbows me. I take thanks in the fact that most of us are healthy, have good families and friends and the sun will rise again tomorrow. Money isn't everything.... but it sure helps to know you're going to eat tomorrow and sleep in a warm bed. Really all that matters is food and shelter. But then you're down to the animal level. You want a little more than that, like something better for your kids, maybe a nice tractor.
If you're in good financial shape and have a decent job, get to spend time with family and friends, be thankful. It could always be worse.
