Harvey there are different attitudes in our small little Holland country as well... I personally am not a very adaptible person, and my sister was manager of a bank office until last week, but was fired because the big chief (a new one from the western concrete jungle) thought that she couldnt manipulate persons in order to get done what she would want to get done... my sister replied that "manipulating people" is a dirty word, and that it doesnt exist in her dictionary...
I have started a new job last week, made some jokes about the boss' mistakes right at the job interview, the boss laughed so i knew that i want to work here... It works just better if you dont have to weigh your words on a golden scale, so you can concentrate on your job... It's so much easier to work with the Saxonian peoples nature..