I have a CCW for one purpose and that is to protect my family and myself. THAT is the only reason I carry. I am not out to have everybody looking at me and saying, "Oh what big balls he has to carry around a loaded pistol". To me ANYBODY open carrying in a business or store is only doing so for that reason. That is to draw attention to themselves.
When I carry I do not want to make it obvious to anyone who wants to rob or otherwise do me harm. If they do try to rob me I have nothing in my possession worth dying for or killing somebody for. I am old enough that my possessions mean very little to me, but my family is precious. My weapon is for PROTECTION FROM SOMEBODY ATTEMPTING TO HARM MY FAMILY.
I do know a couple of guys who open carry everywhere they go. Both of them fell out of the stupid tree and hit every limb on the way down. I wouldn't trust either one to not shoot themselves if somebody said boo to them. So when I see somebody prancing around with a pistol strapped on, usually in a high-rise as obvious as possible holster, the first thing that comes to my mind is the word idiot.
When someone judges others with no idea about their surroundings ,the first thing that comes to my mind is idiot. Perhaps they prance to the beat of a different drummer...