Matt:
The 4in1 is controlled by the third SCV located on the right side, just forward of the rockshaft control lever. The hoses run underneath from the SCV port at the rear of the tractor to two QC's attached to the same manifold as the rest of the loader hoses. The plumbimg then runs up the loader arms to a pair of QC's on the right arm that you disconnect when you change buckets or implements.
I've seen electronic diverter valves used with the switches located on the loader joystick instead of the lever on the fender. That's probably a better set-up (certainly easier to use) than the lever but JD doesn't do it that way since the third SCV is actually already installed on the 3x20 series tractors. The kit just gets you the plumbing and a lever to work the valve.
All in all, I like the set-up despite it being awkward to use sometimes, although you do get used to it eventually. I've attached 3 photos (hopefully). The first shows the disconnects on the right loader arm, the second shows the location of the 3rd SCV control lever and the third shows the hose ports at the rear of the machine.
BILL