To anyone who is still having trouble getting this adjustment made correctly:
On my 3720 and 375 hoe, I was adjusting the rod to make the arms lift the hoe onto the tractor further (higher), in order to get the one-inch pins in. Once adjusted properly to mount the hoe, then using the 3-pt for implements, the arms would travel too far and the relief valve would open. I got used to this situation and knew enough to move the 3-pt lever downward a little to keep it off the relief valve. But I worried about other operators on the tractor, if they didn't recognize the relief valve sound and ran it around a while that way, overheating the hydraulic system. So I tried again and again to adjust the rod on the 3-pt, and the brackets on the hoe, but no combination ensured proper hoe attachment without opening the relief valve. So I finally took off the little sliding brackets from the hoe, added a 1/8" thick layer of metal to the underside half-moon shape area of them that the 3-point arm pins contact, by welding it in and grinding it nice everywhere, and repainting. Now it all works great. The 3-pt can be adjusted so it is not in the relief valve, but the arms lift the hoe plenty high enough since I added that extra layer of metal to take up space.