MossRoad said:
She needs to get out of there and go somewhere where housing is affordable, or jobs are available. I know it is a lot tougher now than 20 years ago. I don't see how a young couple could start out and get into a new house right off the bat like my folks did in the late 40's.
It is happening. My employer is often loosing young engineers once they start looking to buy a house/condo. Reading through this thread, I don't think y'all living in the midwest really have an appreciation for how expensive it is on the coasts. It is kind of abstract until you experience it. There is a huge disconnect between the folks in my area who are retiring now - they could afford 15 year mortgages on a single starting salary and my generation who are struggling to pay a 30 year mortgage on 2 salaries. Unfortunately, they've stopped building modest sized houses, the land is so expensive that it isn't viable to only put a 2,000 sq foot house on it, better to build a 3,500-4,000+ house with three car garage & "bonus room" which continues to price younger folks out of the market.
A quick check on realtor.com showed that in Evansville, Indiana there are no less than 50 houses for $20,000 or less! Not sure how a nice a neighborhood they are in

... The Cheapest was listed for $5,000 (less than my annual property tax bill). I could have bought half the group (25) for what I paid for my house (granted my house is 4 br vs. 1 or 2). I sometimes think about buying a 12 pack of houses and becoming a slum-lord in Evansville, If you could get $200-$400 a month rent, you'd be making 20% ROI. The gotcha is that the local economy isn't strong & these places are so cheap because they are vacant.
In Lawrence, MA (a small city near me, not known for expensive real estate - not a first choice for a young family to settle down) the cheapest listing was $49,000 for a 500 sq foot condo. There were only 5 listings for less than $100K. In my town (probably about a 7 out of 10 for most expensive in Mass) a buildable lot (2 acres) goes for >$300K. The so called McMansions in Mass are more than a $1M, often approaching $2M
My (very limited) opinion is that the areas that have dirt cheap housing is that if they have a "technology" company - they are often a one horse town - if that employer goes out of business, the local economy will collapse.
Of course there are better income/housing cost areas than the north east - my brother lives in Columbus, OH, he paid 40% what I did for a similar sized 4 br house. He has a 10 years left on his 15 year mortgage... (he makes a similar salary, his wife doesn't work)
Back to the subject at hand - the folks signing the papers have responsibility to understand what they are getting themselves into (especially these "creative financing" schemes".
I was originally going to sell my 2 family rental property as 2 condominiums. I had an offer on one - $300K. The buyer couldn't come up with 5% ($15K) to qualify for the standard first time buyer programs... How are you going to afford a $1,800 a month mortage ($2,200 w/ taxes & insurance) if you can't save $15K to start? I'm currently renting the unit for $1,300... They could easily rent at that rate - $2,200-1,300 = $900 - in 16 months they'd have saved the $15K. I think the buyer had just gotten a new job & figured they could get 100% financing - no waiting - that's the "new" american way...