CT_Tree_Guy
Platinum Member
Hiya Duckbuster -
Good job on starting this thread, it might just help some people to escape the clutches of nicotine.
I don't think I'll do the Roll Call thing, but this thread can serve another very useful purpose. If I ever have another puff on a cigarette (or use tobacco in any other form), I will post here that "I haved caved in, and I am weak". There, how's that for incentive? (as if I needed more than I already have).
I know many, many people who have quit for life. It is do-able, and it is necessary. Almost anything is possible once you decide to do it, and this particular thing gets easier every day. Some things don't. And it's a lot like alcoholism; you can't "dabble". One leads to too many.
As I said in a previous post, I think it helps to concentrate on all that you're gaining, not on what you think you're losing. That's the monkey on your back talking. Nicotine is pleasurable because we're addicted to it. Break the addiction and you're no longer giving anything up, you're just gaining.
I always found it very depressing to be doing something that I knew was so harmful. I often referred to it as "living a nightmare". IF I hadn't bummed a cigarette from someone in 1994, thinking I'd just smoke "for a little while, just for fun", it would have been 20 years now since I smoked, instead of 20 days. That kind of thinking will make you crazy, but it's crazier to just keep going down the wrong path, when you know it doesn't lead to where you want to go.
But hey, 20 days is 20 days, and I do feel better already. And I know it can be done, by anyone, once you decide to.
I'd close by saying "good luck", but luck has just a small part in it. Instead, I'll just wish you all "good health".
John
Good job on starting this thread, it might just help some people to escape the clutches of nicotine.
I don't think I'll do the Roll Call thing, but this thread can serve another very useful purpose. If I ever have another puff on a cigarette (or use tobacco in any other form), I will post here that "I haved caved in, and I am weak". There, how's that for incentive? (as if I needed more than I already have).
I know many, many people who have quit for life. It is do-able, and it is necessary. Almost anything is possible once you decide to do it, and this particular thing gets easier every day. Some things don't. And it's a lot like alcoholism; you can't "dabble". One leads to too many.
As I said in a previous post, I think it helps to concentrate on all that you're gaining, not on what you think you're losing. That's the monkey on your back talking. Nicotine is pleasurable because we're addicted to it. Break the addiction and you're no longer giving anything up, you're just gaining.
I always found it very depressing to be doing something that I knew was so harmful. I often referred to it as "living a nightmare". IF I hadn't bummed a cigarette from someone in 1994, thinking I'd just smoke "for a little while, just for fun", it would have been 20 years now since I smoked, instead of 20 days. That kind of thinking will make you crazy, but it's crazier to just keep going down the wrong path, when you know it doesn't lead to where you want to go.
But hey, 20 days is 20 days, and I do feel better already. And I know it can be done, by anyone, once you decide to.
I'd close by saying "good luck", but luck has just a small part in it. Instead, I'll just wish you all "good health".
John