Well, if you want to use the hoe, first you unpin and remove the lift arms and leveling box (mine has the same size pins everywhere). Then you back up over the backhoe subframe. Once you get close enough, you connect the hydraulic hoses so you can use the hoe itself to tilt/lower the front of the subframe onto the trailer balls. Yeah, I used trailer couplers to mount it to the tractor. They work great. Once the couplers are attached to the FEL bracket, you simply raise the rear of the hoe and pin it to the top link support bracket.
Now, to energize the hydraulic circuit, you just raise the 3ph control to the upper most notch. The upper arms will lift until in the full up position, then the circuit will be charged. If you lower the control handle to any position below the top notch, the hoe stops working.
All I had to buy was 2 sets of 3/8" hyd quick connects, with nipples to thread right into the 3/8" aux ports. I used 2 elbows that went from 3/8 to 1/2 because my hoses were 1/2 inch. I also had to buy a shorter hose for the return side. The original was 30" and I just needed a 20" since I moved it closer to the tractor.
A log splitter would be easy to run off this setup on the rear. You could even skip buying an extra control for the splitter if you had a spring to return the cylinder to the collapsed position, just use the lift control to extend it.