I'm just guessing, but I think I'm a lot younger than Catlady with a similar idea. A lot about the financial aspect depends on what things cost where you are now. Me, I'm living on a 1/3 acre lot with a house that has a 1300sqft floorplan/walk out basement. Most of my basement is unfinished garage with single ply doors (crazy that someone would build like that in MI, but you know...).
Bottom line, if I had no mortgage, I would have to come up with close to $400/month just to keep up on taxes. And that is of course in no way connected to your income. Add to that summer utilities of about $200/month (air conditioning / humidity reduction). I heat with wood, so I typically don't spend more than $400 for a full seasons heat (nearly 6 months). The few trees I have on my property include a few giant oaks which are very expensive to even have trimmed (I have branches with a diameter over 2 feet).
Then there are all the township rules / ordinances. Only 2 vehicles may be parked outside. No commercial vehicle parking (even if it only "looks" commercial). My Bobcat outside is basically illegal. No "dismantled vehicle" permitted for more than 24hrs unless it is fully enclosed in a building. Fences require a permit, have to meet township rules and require a full survey. The "ordinance enforcement officer" can come and measure the height of my grass and order a contractor to cut it if he chooses and send me the bill + cost of violation..... Blah Blah Blah. Jackson, Birthplace of the republican party. Who would think that people of this leaning would write such restrictive ordinances ? Big bad government and all that.. but local government then it is OK ?
These are the "issues" that make me crazy. I live on a dirt road that is not even plowed until several days after we get snow, by which time the residents have already dealt with it. I fill in all the washouts and even out the holes the council digs every year (multiple times) to fix their ever unreliable sewage system that we have to use (and for which the fees more than doubled 2 years ago). Honestly, I have no idea what I am getting for all my tax money and I'm not talking income taxes.
Now I have investigated SE Colorado, and in some of the less populated counties people have virtually no difference in services compared to me, except that they pay $180 property tax per year and have virtually full control over what they do on their property (and were talking 36 acre lot minimums). Of course there is almost no "conventional" work (brick and mortar factories / offices) so one has to have a portable job (software / cad / design / nursing etc). Else do something the ranchers need, fix tractors, fences, fabricate, weld, all of the above and a few of the previous options.
I am presently stuck due to the home price situation, since I would probably have to take a loss of at least $50k right now if I had several months to find a buyer and of course I don't have a way to fund a loss of that magnitude right now. I honestly can't point to anything that I can see is going to return employment to this part of MI. My employer has added over 100 jobs and we are in the minority, but since they are all contract positions, no-one is moving into our neighborhoods. Everyone is sitting tight on their unsellable houses (if they have not already been foreclosed, in which case they have left the state) and the commutes are getting longer and longer. Gas price has been creeping back up there too and oil is not outrageous yet.
Anyway, for those of you who may not be living in a situation like what I described, hope you have a better understanding of us wannabes. As long as I'm stuck, I am equipping myself with everything I need to be self sufficient out in the boonies and I can take my time doing it. TLB = done, Diesel genset = done, F250 4x4 for hauling stuff = next, lathe = rebuilding, bridgeport style mill = done, miller dialarc 250 = done, surface grinder = done, cylindrical grinder = looking. Sheet metal equipment = looking, rotary screw (trailer type) compressor = looking, sandblasting system = after the compressor, spray painting = after the compressor etc etc etc...