I now have both - just got the LP grapple but haven't really used it yet. I've had a Bro Tek BH thumb since I bought my BX25 three years ago. I like to use it for stump removal for one. Assuming its a tree I"m going to cut, I leave 3-4' of trunk on the stump and then use the BH bucket and thumb clamped on the stem to move it in all directions. This loosens up the roots some. I then go to digging the roots then back to the bucket/thumb to rock the stump some more. You could do this with the grapple, but would have to turn the tractor around first. A little inconvenient. The other advantage of the thumb over a grapple would be for rocks, etc., that are buried below grade a foot or more. Unless you have a large hole, you won't be able to get the grapple down there to pick it out. I foresee using the grapple for above grade/at grade loose material for the most part.
On the other hand, all the available BX thumbs are manually deployed, so you do have to get off the hoe to deploy it and vice-versa when you're done. You can try leaving it partially deployed while digging, but it gets in the way eventually. Having a hydraulic version would be the best, but not something you can get OEM or aftermarket. You'd have to fab something up with a valve and cylinder to make one hydraulic. Something I keep thinking about how to do someday. :licking: